Mindfully Gay Podcast
Welcome to the Mindfully Gay Podcast hosted by Jerry Buie and John Cottrell. Listen to these heart-to-heart conversations that transcend the ordinary.
Guided by a simple yet impactful questions, John and Jerry unravel a tapestry of emotional dialogues. They delve courageously into the essence of what it means to take risks as a gay man, navigating through the intricate pathways of bravery, vulnerability, and the ultimate quest for self-acceptance. Their personal narratives of courageously facing fears and embracing their true selves are not just stories, but powerful testaments to the resilience and vibrancy of the gay experience.
Mindfully Gay Podcast
Finding Grounded Strength in Uncertain Times (Epi 50)
How do we stay grounded when the world feels like it’s spinning out of control? In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast, John Cottrell and Jerry Buie explore what it means to live — and thrive — as queer people during times of global unrest, political turmoil, and collective anxiety.
Recorded in the shadow of what Jerry calls “the reign of terror,” this honest conversation moves from the therapy room to the yoga mat, from personal stories to historical reflection. John and Jerry connect today’s fears to major cultural turning points — 9/11, the AIDS crisis, marriage equality, and beyond — revealing how the LGBTQ+ community has always found resilience in connection, creativity, and self-understanding.
They remind listeners that true power doesn’t come from external validation — not from politics, religion, or social approval — but from the deep spiritual knowing of who we already are. Through stories of activism, self-care, and queer wisdom, they invite us to rebuild our sense of belonging through presence, purpose, and love.
Whether you’re a therapist, activist, yogi, or simply a human seeking hope, this episode offers grounded tools for emotional resilience and a meaningful reminder:
“We cannot be erased — not by fear, not by politics, not by silence.”
Episode Highlights
•Processing collective trauma in therapy and queer life after 9/11, Pulse, and the 2024 election.
•How generational differences shape our reactions to fear and political change.
•The danger of digital activism replacing real community.
•Reclaiming spiritual authority and rejecting the need for external permission to exist.
•The importance of queer history, mentorship, and intergenerational connection.
•Redefining activism: showing up in community, teaching yoga, mentoring, or simply holding space.
•How ritual, mindfulness, and nature help us transform fear into power.
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