Mindfully Gay Podcast
Welcome to the Mindfully Gay Podcast hosted by Jerry Buie and John Cottrell. Listen to these heart-to-heart conversations that transcend the ordinary.
Guided by a simple yet impactful questions, John and Jerry unravel a tapestry of emotional dialogues. They delve courageously into the essence of what it means to take risks as a gay man, navigating through the intricate pathways of bravery, vulnerability, and the ultimate quest for self-acceptance. Their personal narratives of courageously facing fears and embracing their true selves are not just stories, but powerful testaments to the resilience and vibrancy of the gay experience.
Mindfully Gay Podcast
Letting Go of Dry Bones: Rewriting Queer Narratives of Worth (Epi 39)
"Letting Go of Dry Bones: Rewriting Queer Narratives of Worth"
🎙️ New Episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast
🗓️ Airs Friday, July 18, 2025
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In this heartfelt episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast, hosts John and Jerry hold space for one of the most tender and relatable themes in the LGBTQ+ experience: self-doubt. What starts off as a lighthearted chat quickly evolves into a powerful conversation about the emotional and spiritual wounds that shape queer identity.
John shares a vulnerable moment involving his mother--a story about feeling invisible, misunderstood, and emotionally dismissed. From there, the episode unfolds into an honest discussion about internalized shame, spiritual disconnection, and the courage it takes to rewrite old stories that no longer serve us.
Together, John and Jerry reflect on:
🌿 How generational trauma and queer shame fuel self-doubt
🪶 The Native metaphor of "dragging dry bones" as a symbol of outdated beliefs
🌀 The spiritual cost of not knowing your place in the universe
💔 The fear of success, authenticity, and emotional risk
🔍 How to examine and shift harmful inner narratives
🎧 The healing power of simply being heard without judgment
✨ Why Pride is more than a parade--it's an everyday practice of coming home to yourself
Whether you're working through your own fears, seeking healing in your family story, or learning how to believe in your worth, this episode offers compassion, insight, and practical tools for your journey.
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